Monday, November 20, 2017

Remembering the Life of Grandaddy Cooper 9-11-20 to 11-12-17

On Sunday morning, November 12, 2017, our beloved Grandaddy Cooper went home to be with His Creator. Below his picture here is the full obituary written by my dad, Charles Hanson Cooper, about his father, Charles Antoine Cooper. For a man who lived his life so fully with love toward God, country and man, this hardly gives one a glimpse of the legacy left by the life of our Grandaddy. Because he taught us to love, we can only pray and hope to live our lives as he did - so unselfishly and full of giving.

When I think of Grandaddy, this Scripture comes to mind:
"And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." - Micah 6:8




Charles Antoine Cooper - AKA – son, Cooper’s Bakery clerk, student, Daddy, Grandaddy, soldier, sergeant, husband, brother, uncle, cousin, teacher, principal, dealer in antiques, lover of God, lover of mankind, and lover of all creation.

Obituary written by Charles "Charlie" Cooper to follow: 
Charles Antoine Cooper

Wherever Dad went he made it a better place.  Dad was born, at home, to Leslie A. Cooper & Margaret Hanson on Sept. 11th 1920.  The Dr. Rode a horse & buggy and the delivery took so long that after Dad was born he went to the buggy and took a big slug of whiskey.  Leslie went to the offices of the San Marcos record, where he was a regular contributor and exclaimed "It's a boy, he'll either be a prize fighter or a baker!".

Dad was raised a Methodist.  His Grandfather was from a family of Presbyterians and his Grandmother from a family of Baptists, so they decided to be Methodists when they were married. 

The Coopers owned Cooper's Bakery in San Marcos, Texas.  Dad grew up relishing the smell of fresh baked bread, cakes, pies, & cookies.  He learned the Spanish language while working w/ the Hispanic patrons. 
His young life in San Marcos was filled with hunting & fishing the San Marcos and Blanco Rivers with his brothers Jack & Edwin. 

He trapped furs as a youngster and sold them for $.50 a pelt which was "good money for the great depression days" he would say.  He was bitten through the right hand by a bobcat he tried to befriend and he and some buddies released 2 opossums in the darkness of the Palace Theatre that to start a near riot.

When it came time to graduate from high-school they had to retrieve him and some buddies for the ceremony, from the 5-mile dam on the Blanco river where the boys were seining fish coming over the flooded river dam.

Dad graduated from Southwest Texas State Teachers College in San Marcos (Now Texas State) and played trombone in the college band and his father played the baritone in the same band.  His trombone playing would follow him to war in 1941.

Dad joined the army and served in the celebrated Texas 36th Division.  He was stationed at Camp Bowie, went through the Louisiana maneuvers and fought during WWII as a Seargent in the North Africa and Italian Campaigns.  He was there at the landing at Salerno, some of the fiercest fighting of the war.
He returned to the USA sickened from Malaria and Battle Fatigue.  While recovering at Moore General in Ashville NC, he met a beautiful nurse, Lieutenant Laverta Green.  They were married in Ashville May 15th 1945.  Brother Leslie was born in March 1946. 
Dad received his Master's of Science Degree from Oklahoma A&M (Now Oklahoma State). He taught industrial arts at Texas A&I and started his public teaching career in 1949 as a Principle of the Utopia Texas School District.  While there me and my sister Margaret were born.  Charles did the county census for the Uvalde & Sabinal Counties and had some great stories about the hillbillies.  He also worked as a constable during summer breaks as well as operating a leather goods stand at Garner State Park. 
Dad was an artist, business man, and a jokester.

While living in Utopia he saved a man's life during a water well digging incident by using oxygen tanks. 

Dad took over the Superintendent of the Martindale School District in 1953.  He also worked as the Principal, Science Teacher, Spanish Teacher, and School Bus Driver. 
Sister Evelyn was born in Lockhart in 1953. 

Dad taught us kids how to hunt and fish the San Marcos Rivers, took us hunting arrowheads and taught us how to swim.  During the summers dad ran a horse stable on the little Blanco River; we learned to ride for free.  He also worked as a constable. 
Dad moved the family to San Antonio in 1961 and began his 25-year long career as a teacher in the Northeast ISD.  All the kids, with Dad's help, graduated from SA MacArthur HS.  Dad was a math expert and would invent games and techniques to make learning fun and was recognized for this and was sent as an ambassador to several Central America countries to help teach the techniques to the local teachers.
He would have boy's summer camps here in Medina at the 42-acre ranch he named Camp Manzanita.  He taught the young boys, swimming, fishing, river riding, about nature, plants, animals, fossil hunting, local geology.  All the things he had taught his family. 

Dad, his whole life, bought, sold, & traded antiques and collectable.  When he retired from teaching in 1986, he made it his second career.  Antoine's Antiques was the name of the business he ran out of his home in San Antonio.  He loved history and loved to "wheel and deal" and visit with his patrons. 

Mother passed away in 2006 and we moved Dad from San Antonio to live with us.  Dad visited a good deal to the Old Timer, Core, & Ace Hardware and with his dogs befriended many of the local residents. 

He loved to go to the Medina Days to run Dogs & visit.  Mr. McDaniel told me that he must have shown his photo of mom at least twice to every resident of Bandera County.  Mother was a pretty woman and he felt fortunate to have had married her.
Dad stopped driving when he turned 90 but wasn't happy about it.

He enjoyed taking care of the chickens, gardening, and watering his fruit trees. He remained in good health and caring for himself until his final days.  He passed away last Sunday morning in Bandera at the age of 97 years, 2 months, and 1 day.  On his office door growing up he had posted that: "A stranger is a friend you have never met" That is how he lived and his epitaph shall read.  "I loved my fellow man"


Sunday, October 15, 2017

Southern Special Dinner

Southern Special Dinner
by Mom w/Dad’s coaching on the pork chops and potatoes

This meal was so yummy that we want to make it again, so the short and sweet recipes for each are below! We had many random fresh garden vegetables to cook, and this worked!

Skillet Pork Chops
Heat a few tablespoons of canola oil in a skillet to medium-high heat. Rinse pork chops (boneless) and dip in a mixture of flour, salt, and pepper. Fry the chops in the skillet for about two minutes on each side. You might want to lower the temperature to medium for the second batch to avoid burning the flour. Set on a paper towel or paper bag to drain the grease.


Sauteed Okra n Squash
Heat a few tablespoons of butter and olive oil in a skillet on medium heat. Add chopped, fresh okra. As you saute the okra, slice and add a zucchini squash and a yellow squash to the mix. Sprinkle with garlic salt. This was our FAVORITE!

Boiled Radishes
Wash and trim edges off of fresh radishes (save the green tops to rinse and tear for the mixed greens side dish). Boil a couple of cups of chicken broth, salt to taste, lemon juice, and a couple of tablespoons of apple cider vinegar. Add whole radishes and boil for about 15-20 minutes. Turn off, cover and let sit until you’re ready to eat. This was also surprisingly delicious!!!

Mixed Greens
Boil chicken broth. Add greens of all types and a couple of fresh garlic cloves (thinly sliced or however). We had left over greens of every type - turnip, collard, arugula, spinach, and radish greens - including a bit of thinly sliced carrots! Mmm mmm!

Baked Sweet Potatoes/Potatoes
Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Wash potatoes and pierce them several times with a fork.
Smother the sweet potatoes in coconut oil and then butter. Smother the russet potatoes in butter. Bake for one hour.

Tips: To make this run smoothly, I cooked these in this order - baked potatoes, started greens & turnips, then sauteed okra and squash - dumped it out of that skillet and used the same skillet for the pork chops. By the time the pork chops were done, everything else was all just finishing!

Thursday, July 20, 2017

Strawberry "Burrito" Carmelita Dessert

Strawberry “Burrito” Carmelita Dessert

(Dessert #2 in the "Carmelita" series - A quest for more dulce de leche desserts is always in order!)


The pictures speak for themselves - ingredients and all! As a side note - these were yummy except that a nice cold dollop of either yogurt, sour cream, or whipped cream would have been a perfect addition! Be sure to save any left-over dulce de leche on a spoon for your coffee or hot tea the next morning (see below)!

Wednesday, July 5, 2017

Banana Pudding Carmelita

Banana Pudding Carmelita

(the banana pudding with a tan)
By Mom



2 boxes instant vanilla pudding (5.1 ozs.)
1 can La Lechera Dulce de Leche (13.4 ozs.)
4 cups of cold milk
1 large banana
½ box of vanilla wafers


  • In a large bowl mix the dulce de leche with the milk until well blended and frothy on top.
  • Add the instant vanilla pudding mix and blend until mixed well.
  • Smooth about a cup or two of the pudding mixture onto the bottom of any large glass dish that can hold up to 2 quarts. Just cover the bottom.
  • Place rows of vanilla wafers on top of the first layer of pudding. You might use all of the broken cookies for this part and save the whole ones for the top.
  • Smooth another 1-2 cup layer of pudding on top of that one.
  • Top with banana slices - one large banana works.
  • Add the rest of the pudding and smooth the top with a spatula.
  • Don it with rows of vanilla wafers, and you’re done! Cover and chill for best results!

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Gnocchi Chicken Italiano de Roberto

Gnocchi Chicken Italiano de Roberto
(Proof that a country boy CAN survive - and cook too.)

Gnocchi - 1 package
3 chicken breasts
Half and half creamer - 2-3 cups
Onions - chopped
Celery - chopped
Carrots - chopped
Spinach - chopped
Butter - ½ stick or so
Salt, pepper, poultry seasoning


Brown and steam the chicken breasts in a skillet until fully cooked, then shred or chop the chicken and set it aside. Sauté onions, celery, and carrots in butter while heating the half-and-half in a pot to boiling. Add chicken and all vegetables with spices to the half-and-half. Simmer for 20 minutes adding the gnocchi for the last 5 minutes. Serve with your favorite side of bread (we love yummy naan bread) for dipping!

Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Knot Justa Swingin'

Knot Justa Swingin’

By Christie Williams

“A figure eight on a bight," David casually explained.

"A what?!" I cross-examined.

bight - /bīt/ noun - a loop of rope, as distinct from the rope’s ends

This was the gift of our son, David, toward what would become the seat of fun for his niece and nephew . . .  two ready swings hanging from an oak tree in the yard. Our newest family members - Chelsea and Grant - now three and one, would surely enjoy such fun. From this fresh idea for a family that could use something to lift them.

One year has passed since their parents divorced, with this being their home away from home when they are with their dad, our oldest son, Landon. Moreover, it has been three years since my husband, Robert, lost his leg in a hunting accident and joined the ranks of other BK (below knee) amputees. These little things like swing raising bring joy and make a difference.

As a rock climber, David knows the importance of knots and ropes and the science behind how they support not only fun and sport, but most importantly the lives of the ones they sustain. When I asked him how he tied the rope, his response led me to the dictionary following his careful explanation demonstrated with the physical gesturing of a figure eight tie around a simple bight.

It was not as complicated as it sounds but surprisingly effective and sturdy for the part of rope that secures the swing to the tree. Mesmerized by the process, it occurred to me that what each of them gave mystically mirrored who they are - climber and fisherman - even to the very type of knot and its placement.

In fact, David’s figure eight with a bight was something likened to him - methodical and purposeful, yet adaptable. This was David’s contribution.

My husband, Robert, on the other hand, applied the crafting of the fisherman’s knot - fixed, strong, and unbreakable like him. This was Robert’s contribution.

As I watched these two raise these swings like suns rising to burst the darkness, my heart smiled. I saw the blossoming of our son, David, providing for our grandchildren something he had used to scale the mighty two-thousand-plus-foot mountain, El Toro, in El Potrero Chico, Mexico; to something that would safely hold family a foot or two off of the ground.

With every part of this swing-raising event, gleaming rays of the character and personality of each continued to shine. Robert stood sturdily and gracefully at the base while welcoming his son to ascend the ladder. Assisting David to the higher part at branch-level where his own footing would have been less secure, he humbly supported it below, yielding way to his assistant. Later scaling it himself for a final shake to test the system of purposeful knots and loops applied, Robert was still providing.

My guys were not just hanging a swing that night, but like children themselves - God’s children - they were securing love for their family by the greatest means of all - their actions. What began with a bight, a loop of love, transcended our little yard that day. Like the figure eight, our family dynamics continue to gain strength from such expressions where using God-given talents supports everyone.

“Little children, let us not love in word or speech but in deed and in truth.” - I John 3:18