"Give strong drink to one who is perishing, and wine to those in bitter distress." - Proverbs 31:6
Every morning I read the Bible for spiritual food to start the day - sometimes reading the chapter of Proverbs that matches the date - today's being Proverbs 31.
During every reading, one or two verses will especially ring true at this time and invite a rereading. The verse above did that this morning and has special meaning now.
First off, I do not drink because I am allergic to alcohol and hate its negative affects on people I love, self included. By God's grace, I have not had a drink nor wanted one in 11 years and 338 days; whereas, Robert has always been one to drink socially or in moderation. Long story, short: Robert was in so much pain from his wound prior to the amputation that the doctors had him on 3 pain meds - all narcotics and some of them opioids. Pain management is extremely important in hospitals as of 2000 and moreso to anyone prior to amputating a limb because the nerves will remember the pain. In other words, after Robert's foot was severed, he could still feel it - phantom pain, they call it.
More will come on this topic, but back to the pain meds . . . After the amputation, we were sent home with only 5 days worth of one of the pain meds. "Why?!" we wondered. After calls to nurses, research, and a few weeks of grueling experience, we discovered why; coming off of it was torture. Following the intense and constant pain, sleepless nights in the hospital, and many experiences too personal to discuss - running out of these highly addictive pain meds actually tops the list of things to overcome.
With God's help and his fighting spirit, Robert did it. His withdrawals from the drugs included about a week of extreme insomnia, loss of appetite, anxiety, depression, increase in leg/phantom foot pains, us crying and praying and grieving through it. We see how people get addicted to it - and it's very prevalent on the streets. Having been there myself with alcohol, I could empathize deeply, which ironically brings me back to the verse about "strong drink."
Thus far, Robert had avoided alcohol because of all the meds. However, there came a time for him when a few glasses of wine was the only way he could find relief. He used it sparingly, temporarily, and only until another medicine, Neurontin, started to work in relieving his nerve pain. Since sobriety, I have always passionately said, "I hate alcohol," but that first night of watching my husband sleep for more than 3o minutes at a time to get the healing he needed became answered prayer and a turning point for me. I still hate alcohol for myself and all other former/present/future alcoholics, BUT I now cherish it as a medicine "to those in bitter distress."
So hallelujah for wine and whiskey when they are used in moderation and as God intended!
We share all of this personal stuff because other BKA (below the knee amputee) people sharing their story on blogs helped us - and is still! God often works through other people.
#BKA
#belowthekneeamputee
Every morning I read the Bible for spiritual food to start the day - sometimes reading the chapter of Proverbs that matches the date - today's being Proverbs 31.
During every reading, one or two verses will especially ring true at this time and invite a rereading. The verse above did that this morning and has special meaning now.
First off, I do not drink because I am allergic to alcohol and hate its negative affects on people I love, self included. By God's grace, I have not had a drink nor wanted one in 11 years and 338 days; whereas, Robert has always been one to drink socially or in moderation. Long story, short: Robert was in so much pain from his wound prior to the amputation that the doctors had him on 3 pain meds - all narcotics and some of them opioids. Pain management is extremely important in hospitals as of 2000 and moreso to anyone prior to amputating a limb because the nerves will remember the pain. In other words, after Robert's foot was severed, he could still feel it - phantom pain, they call it.
More will come on this topic, but back to the pain meds . . . After the amputation, we were sent home with only 5 days worth of one of the pain meds. "Why?!" we wondered. After calls to nurses, research, and a few weeks of grueling experience, we discovered why; coming off of it was torture. Following the intense and constant pain, sleepless nights in the hospital, and many experiences too personal to discuss - running out of these highly addictive pain meds actually tops the list of things to overcome.
With God's help and his fighting spirit, Robert did it. His withdrawals from the drugs included about a week of extreme insomnia, loss of appetite, anxiety, depression, increase in leg/phantom foot pains, us crying and praying and grieving through it. We see how people get addicted to it - and it's very prevalent on the streets. Having been there myself with alcohol, I could empathize deeply, which ironically brings me back to the verse about "strong drink."
Thus far, Robert had avoided alcohol because of all the meds. However, there came a time for him when a few glasses of wine was the only way he could find relief. He used it sparingly, temporarily, and only until another medicine, Neurontin, started to work in relieving his nerve pain. Since sobriety, I have always passionately said, "I hate alcohol," but that first night of watching my husband sleep for more than 3o minutes at a time to get the healing he needed became answered prayer and a turning point for me. I still hate alcohol for myself and all other former/present/future alcoholics, BUT I now cherish it as a medicine "to those in bitter distress."
So hallelujah for wine and whiskey when they are used in moderation and as God intended!
We share all of this personal stuff because other BKA (below the knee amputee) people sharing their story on blogs helped us - and is still! God often works through other people.
#BKA
#belowthekneeamputee
